Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Equestrian...

It almost come to the end of my co-Q which is equestrian.

Today is the second last of our equestrian class. Thus, 2 practical test was carried out.

1. We 5 people in a group have to tied back the horse band. Can say it is a piece of cake. :)

2. The most excited test. We have to carry a horse to a place and let go of it. After few minutes we have to "catch" back our own horse. It is quite tough cause our horse Billy is so excited. He keep running and jumping around. Lucky he settled down after his intensive excise.

This the picture we took with Billy:}

Sunday, March 22, 2009

爱情是因为想要拥有?

有听过一位学 姐说 “爱是因为想要拥有”.
因为爱某样东西,所以会不择手段想要得到.
男女之间的爱情也不例外.
我想了一想…
也对. 爱情是因为想要拥有.
当我们看上了一位女生或男生时,
我们会很想靠近她.
当我们爱上了她时,
我们就会很想拥有她.
甚至我们不顾一切地为她付出,
只为要了拥有她的心.

当我们拥有的东西开始变质,变坏或不如我意时,
我们就会感到伤心,痛心,生气…
爱情也是一样.
当她做出不如你意的改变时,
伤心,痛心,生气…都不能避免.

我曾经问过我的朋友.
为什么要谈恋爱.
他们的答案是:
1. 因为她很美.
2. 她不美,但很享受和她在一起的感觉.
3. 因为别人都有女友,我也要.
4. 等等

以上三个答复都看的出他们都在追求,拥有某些能使他们快乐的因素.

1. 想要拥或追求美貌.
2. 想要拥或追求美好的感觉.
3. 想要拥或追求别人有的东西.

本人觉得第三个答复有点过分.
本人也觉得我因该不会因为寂寞而爱.

这样一来,我对爱情的定义开始模糊了.
爱=拥有?
爱情是因为想要拥有?